Miscommunication is the Norm: Why Does It Go So Wrong?
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Many years ago we pinched a really good phrase from a BT initiative they ran back in the
1990s:
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Many years ago we pinched a really good phrase from a BT initiative they ran back in the
1990s:
Splitting the difference with assertiveness skills. You don’t have to be nasty, just a little less nice will do it!
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It’s not about being nasty – It’s more about becoming a little less nice in a calculated sort of way!
The whole idea of being people skilled is knowing or finding how to bring out the best in others in any situation, rather than their worst.
How to make your ideas be listened to and discover the factors that make a good influencer
“Could I be that assertive?” asked David Mitchell to himself before joining an Impact Factory session for his BBC programme on Manners.
It’s really hard to say no for a lot of reasons – reasons that unassertive people believe are true usually with very little evidence.
Rumours really are a form of gossip and humans do derive a great deal of pleasure from gossip, whether it’s about colleagues, pop stars, royalty or the neighbour across the road.
Being able to change another’s viewpoint, or your own for that matter can be no small thing.
Is there an unspoken agreement to behave ourselves and not make waves if everyone else does the same?
When it comes to individuals making an impact, personal impact, we think in terms of leaving something behind that wasn’t there before.
Lots of people say first impressions matter.
Indeed, the academics and psychologists who study this kind of stuff, say that people take about a nano-second to make up their minds on meeting someone new.
What is it that gets people noticed in a memorable and positive way?
How often have you said to someone “how are you” to be met with “I’m fine” when everything about their body language and voice tells you that they are far from fine.
It is the study of a set measurable distance between people as they interact, with the idea that we follow three space boundaries according to the following delineations:
Eye contact can make a big difference to our communication!
What is it that makes a person popular? Why is it that they always seem to get the job? Why are some people always sought after?
The ability to sort fact from fiction is an important communication skill that can be learnt!
If your words say one thing and your body language says another, people will remember and believe the non-verbal clues.
Gentle assertiveness is founded on tolerance and respect for others.
Not only does assertive communication help us express our views and achieve goals but do so without hurting or alienating others.
Twenty strategies and approaches to get your needs met in the most effective manner!
Cut the waffle and get straight to the point – it will make a significant difference in the way you are perceived!